Women who like musicians

WhiteShadow

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After years of pursuing women I was into and always not being the thing they wanted, I started to realize that I’m just not attracted to the type of woman who would be into my thing (i.e. guitar, bands, rock music, etc.). Because really, I’m repulsed by modern women in general. I find 99% of women today to be the same basic stupid bitch, with that same insufferable bitch personality.

The women who are into my kind of thing are low quality trash. Low-IQ, promiscuous, basic and stupid.

I seem to chase women who are into book worms and successful businessmen type of guys, which I’m not. And the women who show interest in me are just fucking repulsive and gross.

Makes me think I’ve chosen the wrong path in life. Rock music and guitar are actually trash. sucks to admit, but its the truth.

Thoughts?
 
Yeah, a lot of generalizations and stereotypes. Perhaps your circumstances make it harder than for others, but sounds like a shift in perspective could help. I suspect there are things you could try in order to effect change. Thanks for your honesty.
 
Why define yourself to one thing? I know a lot of very successful people who are great musicians. If you think 99% of women are all the same, that's going to cloud your judgement when the right one does come along.
They kinda are though lol

Women don’t have agency. They are more or less children, and the more you dissect their behavior and psychology you really start to see the parallels between them and children. It’s striking!
 
They kinda are though lol

Women don’t have agency. They are more or less children, and the more you dissect their behavior and psychology you really start to see the parallels between them and children. It’s striking!
Yeah, you aren’t the first person to discover that. Most of us bounce up and down on a bunch of them, blow them off and eventually land on one you can tolerate. They’re all a pain in the ass at a minimum. Even the dishrags. Which who the fuck wants a dishrag ? Anyway, abduct one who does her job, knows her role and looks good naked and call it a day.
 
Yeah, you aren’t the first person to discover that. Most of us bounce up and down on a bunch of them, blow them off and eventually land on one you can tolerate. They’re all a pain in the ass at a minimum. Even the dishrags. Which who the fuck wants a dishrag ? Anyway, abduct one who does her job, knows her role and looks good naked and call it a day.
Lol I wish I had this impartial, pragmatic mindset like the majority of men, but God cursed me with a romantic heart. Disney then solidified that.
 
After years of pursuing women I was into and always not being the thing they wanted, I started to realize that I’m just not attracted to the type of woman who would be into my thing (i.e. guitar, bands, rock music, etc.). Because really, I’m repulsed by modern women in general. I find 99% of women today to be the same basic stupid bitch, with that same insufferable bitch personality.

The women who are into my kind of thing are low quality trash. Low-IQ, promiscuous, basic and stupid.

I seem to chase women who are into book worms and successful businessmen type of guys, which I’m not. And the women who show interest in me are just fucking repulsive and gross.

Makes me think I’ve chosen the wrong path in life. Rock music and guitar are actually trash. sucks to admit, but its the truth.

Thoughts?
they are commonly known as groupies; they are for fun, not a serious relationship, marriage or future.

back in the day they were everywhere; one of the reasons I played in a hair metal band was because there were more women in the crowd than my thrash, prog and death metal bands around that time. (the other reason was more gigs and more clubs for hair bands because it brought in bigger crowds, lots of women in a club attracts lots of men to the club).

many of these groupie women were strippers; and they'd invite me to parties and to where they were dancing; I'd invite them to our shows; worked out great getting more people to our shows, and the parties were unhinged... except for sleep during the weekdays when I had to get up for work (suit and tie in an office, corp HQ) at 7AM...I was usually getting home when it was time to wake up for work a few days a week...that was the only downside, staying awake wasn't easy.

I also shared an apartment with a few strippers for several months - that was another adventure.
 
I had a great mix, played guitar and made good money at the same time.

Playing guitar and standing on my wallet, always attracted women.
 
Did you ask the Lord for to send you someone to love that would make a good wife?


I really should man.

It sucks bc its not like I don’t have options, its just that I’m not impressed by the options before me. I get oneitis real bad, and its always for women who think I’m a creep lol…

I guess we’ve all been the creep once upon a time. Most of us men are very straight forward, and we think women will be the same way but they’re not. They’re very covert and non-confrontational, so if they don’t like you they’ll ghost you rather than be up front. But they always seem to want it both ways bc they want to keep you roped in somehow.

I’ll say I’ve learned a ton of life lessons the hard way in the past couple years. I made all the textbook mistakes, because you can’t really be successful until you really understand how women operate and learn what NOT to do.


Sucks that it has to be a game like this, but I don’t make the rules.
 
I really should man.
It worked for me. This is my 23rd year of marriage. Like @Floyd Eye says though, they are still a giant pain in the ass even when you catch a winner. There were some difficult years, took a long time to really know someone through and through and vice versa.. I don't know how old you are but at my age now I wouldn't bother. I'm too old to raise any more kids. It's too much work, even with a great woman. Even with someone whose interests are the same and someone who is the same religion, race, and background it's hard to get along.

Most women don't get the nightlife/band thing and those that do are usually not wife material and those that are wife material assume you'll hang up the guitar for them. My wife is a musician so she gets it and we have that in common, and a common area to support each other. At this stage if we split or she died I don't think I would even date anyone superficially. I just like doing my thing and not answering to anyone. There is a certain beauty in that but at the same time I've already done the married life so my outlook is different. Regardless, ask the Lord if that's what you want. Perhaps he has a surprise in store for you. Be blessed brother.
 
It worked for me. This is my 23rd year of marriage. Like @Floyd Eye says though, they are still a giant pain in the ass even when you catch a winner. There were some difficult years, took a long time to really know someone through and through and vice versa.. I don't know how old you are but at my age now I wouldn't bother. I'm too old to raise any more kids. It's too much work, even with a great woman. Even with someone whose interests are the same and someone who is the same religion, race, and background it's hard to get along.

Most women don't get the nightlife/band thing and those that do are usually not wife material and those that are wife material assume you'll hang up the guitar for them. My wife is a musician so she gets it and we have that in common, and a common area to support each other. At this stage if we split or she died I don't think I would even date anyone superficially. I just like doing my thing and not answering to anyone. There is a certain beauty in that but at the same time I've already done the married life so my outlook is different. Regardless, ask the Lord if that's what you want. Perhaps he has a surprise in store for you. Be blessed brother.
23rd year for me now too.

Here's something. My first wife was instrumental in my abandonment of being in working bar bands. I spent a solid 8 years in my 20s barely touching a bass guitar let alone being in a band. The first birthday I had after moving in with my current wife, 3 months earlier, I came home from work and there was a Carvin RL1000 full stack sitting in my living room. She said, " Go find a band".
 
made it 20 years before separation and divorce. during separation and after divorce I dated for awhile, mostly women around half my age; only one was worth a relationship, but she had to move away for work after getting her masters, and I had to stay here for the kid; we tried the long distance thing for a few months but didn't last.

Now, besides family, I'm focused on getting to retirement, getting my toys, and moving on before old age slows me down and stops me
 
made it 20 years before separation and divorce. during separation and after divorce I dated for awhile, mostly women around half my age; only one was worth a relationship, but she had to move away for work after getting her masters, and I had to stay here for the kid; we tried the long distance thing for a few months but didn't last.

Now, besides family, I'm focused on getting to retirement, getting my toys, and moving on before old age slows me down and stops me
Nothing wrong with that bro. If something happened between me and my wife I promise you I wouldn't ever get another permanent woman. Fucking hookers are cheaper and they go away when you are done with them. So like " I paid for a full hour but only used 3 minutes, so you wanna go wash my dishes and vaccuum now whore?" :ROFLMAO:
 
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