How do you use them, any tips?
Modded marshall type amp/ high gainer.
i use YA ones in STL libra and load amp with Suhr RL.
running everything at around -9db at the input.
I find that there’s always something missing; a perceived loss of gain, a constant need for boosting and something not quite right in the tone and feel that’s hard to put in words.
how do you get best results out of IRs?
What you're describing is pretty much the standard difference between hearing a rig just listening to the cab in the same room, vs hearing that same exact same rig in a recording environment, mic'd up and listening through monitors. If you compare a raw cab-in-the-room tone to that same cab with an SM57 in front and you only listen to the mic'd signal from the control room, it's going to sound clearer, a bit more strident, a bit less bloated, more detailed, less gainy, etc.
I see this issue brought up by people who are just starting to mess with IR's, especially people who aren't used to hearing their rigs mic'd up and listened to through studio monitors. If you're not used to the studio, then you'd
think (at least I did when I started messing with IR's) that all the weirdness is somehow unique to IR's as a technology but nope. The exact same changes happen with a real mic on your real cab.
Most IR's, if they're made well, are pretty much indistinguishable from the real cab/mic setups they're generated with.
Real growth happens in the mind of the player the moment it sinks in for them that the realms of "in the room tone" vs "studio" tone are
vastly different, and that the same rig at the same settings will sound
entirely different when transferred from one of those scenarios to the other.
The biggest trick is to find the right IR's, which make no mistake is not easy. The speaker cab is the most influential part of the sound, and most IR's to my ears kind of suck, or maybe it's more diplomatic to say "they're all so different, the possible scope for what an IR can sound like is so broad, that most are probably not going to sound how you want." You really have to go hunting for the ones that suit you. Also, I find blending a few IR's works best for me. If you get lucky and find any singular ones that just work and sound great by themselves, that's awesome. Hang onto them and don't loose them. But get used to the idea of blending them as an option.
Also, don't be afraid to use post EQ in addition to IR's. There's a philosophy among amp demo guys about using as little post processing or alteration as possible in the name of honestly and integrity for potential amp buyers. That's fine for them, but if you're not recording specifically to make amp demos that you claim are unprocessed, then who cares! Do whatever it takes to get the sound you want. It's ok to use all the tools available to accomplish that.