So you have pre-judged the child as a "turd", that's real fair. Some people have awful parents, it's not a guarantee the child will be like them. I actually had a math teacher who was raped and carried the child to term and raised him to adulthood. She was very forthright about being raped and having zero regrets about having the child. Loved him like any other child, which is right and true. That was a tough woman and quite worthy of huge respect in my eyes, to see a child as a child rather than as a reflection of some sick person doing some sick deed. How many assholes have spawned humans that went on to live better, productive lives? Many.