Years (decades) ago, I genuinely believed I had the goods to play in a signed, touring, recording act. I definitely had ‘the look’ and I had pretty quick and pretty clean chops for the time. Had good gear. Played in a couple of bands that were on label radar. When I listen back to my my playing back in those days and compare that to someone like Doug Rappoport / Eric Steckel / Al Estrada I just have to have a good natured laugh at my younger self. All mechanics - no style, no soul, nothing to say. I still absolutely love gear. I love old tube amps. I love building my own guitars from disregarded spare bodies an necks discovered online. I still love the feel of a guitar across my lap in the evenings and I still get a big grin when I feel my picking hand FINALLY start to lock in with my fretting hand. I often wonder if some of the feel and style would have developed had I latched onto the gig that led to the gig that allowed me to play full time. I’ll never know.
I do have a buddy only 2 years younger than I am who never quit and met a guy who knew a guy who introduced him to a guy that got him a gig with a major touring country / rock act. He has been to more countries than I can count and damn near every state. He has played on Good Morning America, the TODAY show and the County Music Awards. He spent weeks at a major LV casino in residency with this act. I cannot imagine how cool that life must be.
He readily admits that the secret to his success was being above average at multiple different styles - and focusing more time on chords, chord voicings, and rhythm playing than 3-note per string scale sequences. Be no doubt, he can shred if and when necessary. But his musicianship and versatility made him a very desirable commodity when opportunity knocked.
For every 1 full time paid position in the music industry, there are arguably a dozen equally qualified equally talented musicians in the green room at the audition. And 1,200 equally qualified, equally talented musicians at home working regular jobs to make ends meet who never were in a position to get the call in the first place.