There are some genuinely great guitar players who are women, a few of them I listen to and would still listen if they were dudes, and they make genuinely good music. Not a lot but they exist.
However, the whole thing where dudes fall over themselves for these thirst trap guitar girls I don't understand at all, not on the internet anyway. These girls are almost never top tier players or writers, nor are they top tier hot. Their passable playing doesn't make them hotter, and their hottness doesn't make the playing better.
This is the internet. Seeing the hottest women you can imagine (doing hotter stuff than guitar playing) takes the same number of clicks, and hearing the most inspiring guitar music you can imagine takes the same number of clicks. There's no reason to water down both by forcing them together.