Man, I have nothing against you, as you can see. These ambiguous arguments don't help though. I just don't believe you that you look at a guy dressed like a woman, half naked in front of kids and all you can feel is indifference i.e. don't feel anything.
I don't know why it's hard to be honest to yourself and others buy my intuition tell me you're just not. I understand that for Americans aligning with some ideology or another is just something you do and I understand finding it hard to break character so that's why I really don't think that's what you felt when watching that photo even for 2 seconds.
Hope that didn't come off as patronizing or insulting. Just my honest thoughts.