I don’t think anyone has to go through anything any different than other people to change as a person. The shit I took seriously when I was 18 is pretty much entirely laughable at this point, whether it’s because of personal growth or societal changes.
5 years ago I thought being married and having a house was the greatest thing I ever experienced, turns out being single with a fuck of a lot more guitars/amps and all the freedom in the world is the greatest thing I ever experienced and I just had to go through what over 50% of the population goes through.