I agree with you, for the most part. At the volumes I play at 99% of the time, they don't make a huge difference. Certainly not as much as preamp tubes.
I have been surprised a few times by changing brands of power tubes, when cranking an amp.
The first time was when I replaced some el84s in a PV Classic 30. I was cranking the clean channel for plexi-like breakup. One set was more stout, with higher headroom and less breakup. Kinda meh. The other had way more saturation, less headroom and was more reactive to how hard I hit the strings. Very ACDC. Brand and build of tube? Or just where how they were biased in the circuit? Dunno.
I noticed the same thing with an Allen Classic 10, a 5F2-a, single-ended, Class A, 10 watt amp. It ran off one power tube. Swapping it had significant impact on the sound.
Based on @Racerxrated suggestion, I grabbed some GE6550s for my 4104. Unfortunately, they weren't matched, about 20ma apart. They ran ok, didn't have any hum or noise, but didn't sound as good as the Sovteks I replaced. I went to swap em out, and ended up using one of each, a Soviet and GE! lol. For some reason that combo sounds best.