You just need to make videos where you haven't bathed for days and you're yelling and stuff=expert engineer. Either that or get you some safety glasses and protective equipment=metal amps expert.
correct. in today's social media, it seems whoever yells the loudest with the most BS usually wins.
As far as real music, I think that's subjective...
Been there done that, playing my first paying gig at 14 and my last at 32/33...practicing and learning constantly, etc. I enjoyed it, and it was still a good time / place for live music of all kinds.
Since I stopped playing in bands, my guitar/bass skills have diminished through less practice, less focus, getting older / arthritis...but I've learned other instruments and explore other types of music, from '60s psychedelic, '70s hard rock, '80s new wave, various fusion, prog, and various combinations...for a few years I focused on synth wave, and also spent a few years learning my Roland AIRA system (which I still have) to make trance/psytrance/techno "rave" music.
I enjoy making/playing music/noise so much more today because I do it for my own enjoyment, as a hobby, not to get gigs, sell music / merch. I learn, do, play, dabble etc., whatever interests me at the moment or for an extended period of time, and set my own goals and priorities.
I don't make money from music, I spend money on things that help me make music/noise in whatever direction interests me...no stress because I don't care to impress / prove anything to anyone...except myself.
TL;DR; I make music/noise for myself...if I like the results, that's all that matters to me.