Well thanks for nothing, this fucking sucks.

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degenaro":3mpammx0 said:
Zachman":3mpammx0 said:
I hear you-- 2 wrongs don't make a right, BUT-- Carl surely has proven to be as big a douche as some of us knew he was, and surprised others, who I guess- figured he deserved the benefit of the doubt.

Rig Talk could continue thriving, by simply banning Carl.

I own my forum, and like MY house I decide who is invited in, and what kind of behavior is acceptable while they're there, AND I wouldn't invite the devil and expect good results, you know....
I see it the way Steve sees it. To me it's really simple, it's Bob's and Chris' house, their rules. The place is getting a fork stuck in it BECAUSE of the drama of today. No one can ever just leave a fuckig forum without a grand exit. I view Kage and Ralph as friends, but I do think that they were the final straw for Bob and Chris. I get why, and that is whole other story. But yeah, you don't dig their rules don't come to their house. You hang here and dislike some one that has been let back on. 3 viable options, try to get along, ignore, leave...the fucking mass PM I'm leaving shit...oh fuck it...not worth me getting bend out of shape over. This is disappointing on numerous levels. But fuck me, I would have tossed the place on ebay after the nonsense today as well.

Now, there aren't a whole lot of forums I think are worth hanging, this was one of them. And IT IS too bad what happened.
I've been thinking recently that spending as much time on line as we all do might really be a bad idea. Hell, I'll go find myself a porn forum now...

You know there are folks here that made it into my list of people that got me to the point where at one point wanted nothing more than a real physical confrontation at one point, but these days no matter how much resentment I still harbor I try to be civil to them. Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I'm hoping you'll continue to post here, Ed. Your contributions are very much appreciated by myself and many others... Let's see how it plays with the new owner before moving on... Whaddaya say? :)

Steve
 
degenaro":11ppqvd0 said:
Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I agree with you on many things but this I cannot. Whether it's "real life" or on computer the words have as much meaning as you give them. I suppose that because it's a computer screen, somehow that's not as tangible and people can act differently from how they would in person. Some are like that. I'm not. The words I read here are those of people that I personally know. Hell, I've been to a couple of your gigs. :)
 
defpearlpilot":2ghl2249 said:
degenaro":2ghl2249 said:
Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I agree with you on many things but this I cannot. Whether it's "real life" or on computer the words have as much meaning as you give them. I suppose that because it's a computer screen, somehow that's not as tangible and people can act differently from how they would in person. Some are like that. I'm not. The words I read here are those of people that I personally know. Hell, I've been to a couple of your gigs. :)
Agreed, let me clarify...and this is just how I view it as related to me, and I completely understand others not seeing it the same.
When some one gives me shit, whether this is face to face, on-line whatever and it bugs me-and i have been there many times, many times with Carl as a matter of fact, but really it's more on me then on the person pissing me off. I'm not saying turn the other cheek, but I really try to take to look at why shit affects me rather than reacting these days. And yes some times it's really easy to push my buttons, but I try...
 
defpearlpilot":2952llds said:
degenaro":2952llds said:
Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I agree with you on many things but this I cannot. Whether it's "real life" or on computer the words have as much meaning as you give them. I suppose that because it's a computer screen, somehow that's not as tangible and people can act differently from how they would in person. Some are like that. I'm not. The words I read here are those of people that I personally know. Hell, I've been to a couple of your gigs. :)

Aloha brutha,

I agree 100%

The fact is: Certain things are either endorsed or they're not, and Carl's douchebaggery was apparently endorsed by the Powers that be, and not acceptable by several in the community. It seems that there are many who feel continued exposure to Carl's BS, was tolerable and should be tolerated by others--in the form of ignoring his disruptive presence.

Carl and his ridiculous antics, IMO-- is not someone who should be tolerated by anyone, EVER... It only fosters others mimicing his nonsense.
 
sah5150":2wx6xjsw said:
degenaro":2wx6xjsw said:
Zachman":2wx6xjsw said:
I hear you-- 2 wrongs don't make a right, BUT-- Carl surely has proven to be as big a douche as some of us knew he was, and surprised others, who I guess- figured he deserved the benefit of the doubt.

Rig Talk could continue thriving, by simply banning Carl.

I own my forum, and like MY house I decide who is invited in, and what kind of behavior is acceptable while they're there, AND I wouldn't invite the devil and expect good results, you know....
I see it the way Steve sees it. To me it's really simple, it's Bob's and Chris' house, their rules. The place is getting a fork stuck in it BECAUSE of the drama of today. No one can ever just leave a fuckig forum without a grand exit. I view Kage and Ralph as friends, but I do think that they were the final straw for Bob and Chris. I get why, and that is whole other story. But yeah, you don't dig their rules don't come to their house. You hang here and dislike some one that has been let back on. 3 viable options, try to get along, ignore, leave...the fucking mass PM I'm leaving shit...oh fuck it...not worth me getting bend out of shape over. This is disappointing on numerous levels. But fuck me, I would have tossed the place on ebay after the nonsense today as well.

Now, there aren't a whole lot of forums I think are worth hanging, this was one of them. And IT IS too bad what happened.
I've been thinking recently that spending as much time on line as we all do might really be a bad idea. Hell, I'll go find myself a porn forum now...

You know there are folks here that made it into my list of people that got me to the point where at one point wanted nothing more than a real physical confrontation at one point, but these days no matter how much resentment I still harbor I try to be civil to them. Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I'm hoping you'll continue to post here, Ed. Your contributions are very much appreciated by myself and many others... Let's see how it plays with the new owner before moving on... Whaddaya say? :)

Steve
As long as it's a cool place to hang yeah...
 
carlygtr56":3sa49qrb said:
Funny how the lemmings misplace the blame. You completely give these two bitches a pass, but THEIR actions caused this Ebay shit, and theirs alone.

They fucked it up cause they're two pussies who couldnt ignore my posts.
They are probably cupping each others balls right now.

in person, face to face are you this big of a dick head?
 
jasonP":zzoo8fkz said:
carlygtr56":zzoo8fkz said:
Funny how the lemmings misplace the blame. You completely give these two bitches a pass, but THEIR actions caused this Ebay shit, and theirs alone.

They fucked it up cause they're two pussies who couldnt ignore my posts.
They are probably cupping each others balls right now.

in person, face to face are you this big of a dick head?

:lol: :LOL: He's too big of a pussy to show up in person, and try it.
 
Zachman":2x76osml said:
defpearlpilot":2x76osml said:
degenaro":2x76osml said:
Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I agree with you on many things but this I cannot. Whether it's "real life" or on computer the words have as much meaning as you give them. I suppose that because it's a computer screen, somehow that's not as tangible and people can act differently from how they would in person. Some are like that. I'm not. The words I read here are those of people that I personally know. Hell, I've been to a couple of your gigs. :)

Aloha brutha,

I agree 100%

The fact is: Certain things are either endorsed or they're not, and Carl's douchebaggery was apparently endorsed by the Powers that be, and not acceptable by several in the community. It seems that there are many who feel continued exposure to Carl's BS, was tolerable and should be tolerated by others--in the forum of ignoring his disruptive presence.

Carl and his ridiculous antics, IMO-- is not someone who should be tolerated by anyone, EVER... It only fosters others mimicing his nonsense.
Okay, this is what ignore functions are for, there a few folks on any forum I care to not see word one. As i said I can chill, or leave. But bitching after the fact about what the guys that run/ran the place decided to do is a moot point.
 
defpearlpilot":34n70741 said:
degenaro":34n70741 said:
Because in the end it really is nothing more than words from behind a screen.

I agree with you on many things but this I cannot. Whether it's "real life" or on computer the words have as much meaning as you give them. I suppose that because it's a computer screen, somehow that's not as tangible and people can act differently from how they would in person. Some are like that. I'm not. The words I read here are those of people that I personally know. Hell, I've been to a couple of your gigs. :)

Then there are those who take the opposite approach, unleashing parts of their personalities that they could only get away with online. The internet is considered a different, separate reality to those people.

I imagine for many it's a little bit of both in how they behave online.
 
carlygtr56":1bu48lv7 said:
Zachman":1bu48lv7 said:
Carl didn't ruin anything... NOT banning him for good, was the catalyst for it ALL

Hey faggot. I see HC Effects Forum VOTED you the biggest DOUCHE. Something i knew years ago.
Go take pics of your rack you need to play Pat Benatar covers with you little bitch

Pat Benatar rules! :rock:
 
Even on ignore you still catch the posts when they get quoted. It's a shame how this is all going down. Some people just don't know when to be quiet and seem like a fool rather than talk and remove all doubt.
 
degenaro":2b80h02c said:
Okay, this is what ignore functions are for, there a few folks on any forum I care to not see word one. As i said I can chill, or leave. But bitching after the fact about what the guys that run/ran the place decided to do is a moot point.

Indeed... I just figured I would give my POV, as a contrast for consideration to those reading. I wouldn't invite someone into my house, expecting that others at the party should be required to ignore the socially unacceptable behavior, of someone who is interested in causing discord.
 
I don't spend much time here but it's a sad day when one person can have this kind of effect.

The eBay auction listed "As Is" is funny and sad. It's never going to bring much money 'as is' without at least one change in the member roster. On the other hand, someone can pick it up cheap and then excise the problem.

You folks are welcome at the Diner if this place folds but the atmosphere is considerably more laid back ... actually, "boring" according to Carl. On the other hand, it is a Carl Free Zone.
 
Personally, I can see the points of both sides. But honestly, does going back and forth and arguing about this do anything else but further divide the forum? We already lost two respected and longtime contributors to the board, and we are going to do nothing but lose more people if we continue to let this bullshit divide us into the pro ban/pro not ban factions.

Yeah, it sucks that this bullshit had to occur, and I lament the fact that people got so heated that they had to leave the forum, but there really isn't anything we can do, and arguing further will do nothing but make Rig-Talk that much worse for Carl's wear.

Can't we all just get along?
 
carlygtr56":1ds264mg said:
Hey faggot. I see HC Effects Forum VOTED you the biggest DOUCHE. Something i knew years ago.
Go take pics of your rack you need to play Pat Benatar covers with you little bitch

HEHEHE... You need some new material....
 
So would the Danelectro Fish 'n' chips eq be a good choice over the MXR 10 band EQ as it's a lot cheaper and seems well revi......shit wrong post!
 
skoora":28kz6cej said:
So would the Danelectro Fish 'n' chips eq be a good choice over the MXR 10 band EQ as it's a lot cheaper and seems well revi......shit wrong post!

HEY! You don't talk like that at a funeral....

Just Kidding!

Hopefully...

:cry:
 
Boomer":1xquw7h0 said:
I don't spend much time here but it's a sad day when one person can have this kind of effect.

The eBay auction listed "As Is" is funny and sad. It's never going to bring much money 'as is' without at least one change in the member roster. On the other hand, someone can pick it up cheap and then excise the problem.

You folks are welcome at the Diner if this place folds but the atmosphere is considerably more laid back ... actually, "boring" according to Carl. On the other hand, it is a Carl Free Zone.

I disagree (sorry , I try to be respectful about it at least) . . There are 2 sides to every issue.. On some issues there are more than 2 sides, i.e. 3 dimensional issues .. (ok bad attempt at humor, but I'm actually being very serious simultaneously) .. I don't support any of the crap that went on here, BUT at the same time , I support a certain choice the moderator made , and I'm not the only one... I don't live my life with that kind of stupid bickering at all , and don't support it.. BUT I come to this forum for guitar/amp discussions..> Those discussions are different here than at the Diner, HC, TGP ,etc.. They each have their own dynamic. . THere's no friggin way 1, 2 , 3, or 5 people ruin a forum for me.. There's still plenty of others in the forum that are there for a similar reason I am. .

I know my post is going way against the grain here, and most everywhere, but I feel strongly about it, and I'll tell it like it is (from my view) ... NOt many have any reason to stand up and say this, because a lot of guys here are pissed, but I just read Brad (Rareguitar)'s post about not caring about the "junior prom' stuff, and I totally agree.

Eric
 
Fuck Carl, this is EXACTLY what he wanted, he's sitting in his moms house right now masterbating to the thought that he thinks he's won.....

This was all avoidable had Thump done what the MAJORITY of the forum wanted when Carl asked to come back, and that was to say NO. But he didn't listen to us, so here we have it.... (no I'm not baiting you Chris, just my opinion, it was your decision, and thats fine)

It'll be interesting to see how this all plays out in the end, I've kept my mouth shut about this until now, and wont comment any further on it, other than the comment in my sig.
 
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